Why You Seem Unapproachable (Or Even Unlikable)

Ever wonder why people don’t warm up to you easily, even when you know you’re a good person? It’s not always about what you say; it’s about how you show up. Sometimes, the energy we give off quietly repels connection, even when we crave it. And the wild part? Most of us don’t even realize we’re doing it.

If you’ve ever felt misunderstood or labeled as “unapproachable,” these six (6) common behaviors might be sending the wrong message.

1. Your facial expression is uninviting: Humans are wired to respond to facial expression, and when yours is always cold, irritated, or uninterested, it makes people hesitant to approach you. Try softening your expression slightly around others. You don’t have to smile all day; just show you’re present and warm, not guarded.